Traditionally, when two people are planning on getting married, it’s usually up to one party to buy the engagement ring and surprise the other with a proposal. Despite this long-running tradition, it’s becoming increasingly common today for couples to discuss the idea of an engagement before anything actually happens.
In fact, just over a third of couples keep the proposal a complete surprise, with the rest all having some involvement from both parties. Having this open communication and mutual understanding can be a really positive thing for couples who are about to enter the next stage of their relationship.
If you find yourself in this position, you may be left wondering how to approach buying an engagement ring. There are many positives that come with taking your partner’s engagement ring shopping rather than it is a decision you make alone. It is one of the most important purchases anybody can make, so it’s important to get both the ring itself and the process of buying it right. The following are the three most important reasons why you should consider taking your partner engagement ring shopping with you.
Knowing that your partner will love the ring
Getting the right engagement ring for your partner can feel like a big responsibility. After all, they are going to be wearing this ring for the rest of their life. This is why making the purchase a mutual decision can be a preferable alternative for both of you. Your partner gets to wear something that they truly love, and you get to relax knowing that the right ring has been picked.
Knowing the ring will fit
There’s not much worse than planning a proposal with the perfect ring, only to find out that the ring doesn’t fit properly. Going shopping together and taking an at-home measurement beforehand can make the process a lot easier. Doing this allows you to focus more on finding the perfect design when you get to the shop instead of having the additional task of identifying which rings will fit best.
Despite the fact that rings can be altered, this is an unnecessary complication that can be avoided. It should also be remembered that alterations aren’t always easy, as certain designs are a lot less adaptable (if at all).
Reducing your stress levels
At such a special time in your life, you will want to be sure to avoid any unnecessary worries. After eliminating the two most common issues that come with buying the ring on your own, both you and your partner will be able to relax and enjoy the process a lot more.
Despite the engagement ring not being a total surprise for your partner, there is no reason why the event itself can’t be. With the knowledge that you have the perfect ring at hand, you’ve put yourself in the best position for organising a truly special and memorable proposal. This really is the best way of starting your new life together.
